Monday, December 26, 2011

2011 Christmas Letter


2011 – Or more correctly the very tail end of 2010 was life changing.  At a little after 2pm on Wednesday 22 December 2010 we celebrated the birth of Liam Rórdán Klaus Stones. Both mother and child left the hospital on Christmas Day and 16-1 White Gate Lane has never been the same. The New Year rang in to the sound of baby wails and a never-ending cycle of milk and diapers. A full night’s sleep is a thing of the past. All in all however, the experience is well worth the sacrifice.

2011 has also been one of the driest on record. At the time of writing we are only an inch ahead of the all time low in 1975. Consequently the water truckers have been doing an excellent trade this year. In addition, the economic situation has gradually worsened with construction drying up to a level most people cannot remember and Bermudians facing unemployment for the first time in living memory.

In February (27th) Liam was christened at St. Anthony’s Church in Warwick. His godparents are Kali Winchell, Marie Trott and Brendan Stones. Fr. Joe Scollard C.R. presided over the ceremony. Liam didn’t try to dive into the water like his mother apparently tried to do, but he did not react negatively to the water being poured over him. Around this time we also held the first official Highland Dancing Competition in Bermuda, with almost all of our girls participating.

On 17th March, Liam presented his grandfather with a shillelagh, the same one that had been presented to my grandfather on St Patrick’s Day 1973 by me.

April was a busy month. We held the second set of Highland Dancing Examinations. The Examiner was the President of the Scottish Official Board of Highland Dancing, Shendl Russell. We also had Easter. In the midst of this Liam developed his first ear infection and was on antibiotics for several days.

In May we celebrated Mothers’ Day. It also marked one year since we discovered that we were expecting. Our postponed vacation from last September also happened and Liam took his first flight and ride on a train. We stayed on a farm just outside of Canterbury in Kent, which gave us the ability to spend some time exploring the areas around which I had been at boarding school at Dover College. We visited Dover and Walmer Castles and Dover College, where I met up with my old Housemaster Mike Vanderhoeven and his wife (who also introduced us to his grandchild – now 13 and at Dover College). We had lunch in the old refectory (which is still being used for its original purpose, built in the early 1100s.) and visited the Chapel of St Martin on the grounds where I spent countless Sundays and other occasions as part of the choir. The new music school, built into what was the Headmaster’s House is now a first class facility. We also spent an afternoon with Leo Forsdyke, my former music master in Walmer. The end of the trip we spent in London. Natalie Pereech babysat Liam in our hotel room and we went to see Shakespeare’s “Much Ado about Nothing” starring David Tennant & Catherine Tate. We met up with Roz, Alan and Elizabeth and went to Hampton Court Palace, which was an interesting day. In the evening we had dinner at Le Meridien. We also met up with Josh Paulos for our regular Chinatown meal and were happy to have a coffee with Nigel Hickson on a Sunday morning.

June saw Liam go to the beach for the first time. He really enjoyed the water. He also visited the Aquarium and was fascinated by the baby turtles. It was also Fathers’ Day and Marisa’s birthday.

July was heavily weighted towards prep for “Fortissimo”. Liam went swimming and to swimming “lessons”. He also began to belly crawl and could stand on his own. Liam’s cousins, Alegña & Aliyah, visited with us from Florida and enjoyed playing with the dogs.

August and we celebrated Cup Match as far away from the crowds as possible. We had a picnic on the beach at Mangrove Bay and relaxed. The following week was hectic. Both the Pipe Band and Regiment Band travelled to Ottawa Canada to participate with the Canadian Ceremonial Guard for “Fortissimo”. The three night performance took place on the grounds in front of the Canadian Parliament Building, and the Regiment Band performed at the “Changing the Guard on the Friday morning. It was the first time that the Bermuda Regiment had participated in an official Guard Mount and therefore we became part of history.

In September we celebrated our 5th Anniversary (yes already) and my birthday in Boston. We took Liam to the New England Aquarium, where he was fascinated by the penguins. We visited Babson College and met up with one of Marisa’s professors, Bill Lawler. We also met up with Carrie and Peter and were introduced to Ellie. We visited a farm and picked apples. Liam also had his first haircut and we took a picture of 3 generations of “Stones”.  At my Grandfather’s birthday (his 97th) we took a photograph of 4 generations of “Youngs”.

October and November went by, with Halloween, Remembrance Day, Thanksgiving Day (we’ll celebrate anyone’s holidays). Liam is turning a toddler, and even though he is not walking, he is standing regularly and using things to prop himself up while he moves around. He also is a lot more animated, talking, complaining and generally making his feelings known. He has also perfected his “fake” cry, to which we are getting wise.

Marisa travelled to Antigua on business in early December and unfortunately missed his Christmas pageant, but we took pictures and video. The next big event will be Brendan & Suzy having their child – any day now!

We wish you a very Merry Christmas and hope for a Happy & Prosperous New Year 2012.





Thursday, December 22, 2011

Liam - Week 52

 Date/Week: December 22nd; week 52

Milestones: Our Little Boy is 1! First Holiday Open House on Dec 18th. No longer Baby Liam - Baby Benjamin was born on Dec 16th (Liam's first male cousin). 2nd haircut. Featured prominently in this year's Christmas letter (to be published to the family blog shortly).


Developmental Progress:  He hums/sings 'Jingle Bells'. Continues to take a few steps on his own. Drinks from sippy cup as easily as the bottle. Loves to 'read' his own books.

Energy level: I'm a little frazzled at the moment...

Exercise: only walking - putting together my fitness programme for 2012 though!

Thoughts and Feelings? I cannot believe that Liam is 1. It has been such a busy year. And even this week - with the Open House, Student Event at work, turning in the dissertation proposal, Liam's b-day, Christmas - it's been crazy. I am glad to have captured so much of it and am so very grateful to have had the opportunity to see Liam's journey from this vantage point!

What I am looking forward to: Christmas is coming!


Newborn

1 month

2 months

3 months

4 months

5 months

6 months

7 months

8 months

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11 months



12 months

1 year card














Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Liam - Week 51


Date/Week: December 14th; week 51

Milestones: First Christmas Concert (he was Joseph); Has sandwiches for lunch (he loves them)


Developmental Progress:  Understanding more words; will usually hand you something if you ask for it. 

Energy level: So much catching up to do to get ready for Christmas after a week away. I will admit that I am a little overwhelmed at the moment.

Exercise: only walking

Thoughts and Feelings? There is so much still to do to prepare for our Open House, Liam's 1st birthday and Christmas. I am looking forward to some downtime. On a positive note, the tree is up with lights on it and the Christmas cards with Christmas letter included have been mailed.

What I am looking forward to: All the festivities of the coming two and a half weeks!













Thursday, December 8, 2011

Liam - Week 50

Date/Week: December 7th; week 50

Milestones: 1st Christmas Fair; now has a walker; 1st time away from me for more than one night


Developmental Progress:  He is able to navigate his walker - turn, push it backwards, etc. Getting better at 'patting' the dogs

Energy level: I went from frantic before flying on Monday to a few restless nights due to being in a strange place... but I am a bit more relaxed than usual

Exercise: Dance class on Saturday was good. Looking at what activities will make up my workout programme for 2012 - I need to look at getting back my endurance

Thoughts and Feelings? I miss my family. I speak to Aidan (and Liam) nightly and each morning. I am enjoying the intellectual aspect of this conference but it is tough to be apart from Liam for my first time. He isn't eating his solids and is clingy so he is missing me too. This is a tough first for me...

What I am looking forward to: Going home...







Thursday, December 1, 2011

Liam - Week 49


Date/Week: November 30th; week 49

Milestones: 2nd time receiving antibiotics for ear infections :(  Preparing for his first Christmas concert (which I will miss) 


Developmental Progress:  He has done a few steps on his own but is still not comfortable with walking unaided. Give him something to push though and he goes all over the place; He has discovered that he can crawl faster if he puts whatever he is holding in his mouth

Energy level: Hectic week - I cannot wait for some time off to spend at home doing nothing (once Christmas is over...)

Exercise: Danced at Fort Hamilton on Monday (but also have been told that I have plantar fasciitis on my left foot... sigh)

Thoughts and Feelings? We purchased our tree this past weekend and are starting to get into decorating now that we're into Advent. I am looking forward to catching up with friends and family during the holiday season. I am also excited to see what Liam makes of everything - the lights, the tree, the music. 

What I am looking forward to: Our Open is on December 18, followed by Liam's birthday on the 22nd - it should be a great week of celebrations leading up to Christmas!





Thursday, November 24, 2011

Liam - Week 48


Date/Week: November 23rd; week 48

Milestones: He's 11 months old! He's the oldest in his baby class. We received his first class picture (he looks like he is 3!)


Developmental Progress:  He will go over to his book storage cube, pull it out, pull out a book (usually Thomas the Tank Engine), sit down and flip through it. He's still talking up a storm.

Energy level: I caught Liam's cold... which he still has!

Exercise: none this week...

Thoughts and Feelings? We're getting into the holiday season and it is going to be busy. And sadly, I'll miss his Christmas concert because I'll be away on business. It really sucks.


Need to start thinking about what to do for the little man's 1st birthday.

What I am looking forward to: Some sleep!







Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Liam - Week 47

Date/Week: November 16th; week 47

Milestones: Attended first Remembrance Day Parade; first time having pink eye :( ; first Christmas Party; Loves soup and yogurt! Purchased Liam's first Christmas stocking - and he picked it out!
Developmental Progress:  Walks pretty well if you hold one of his hands; Walks around the house pushing his music desk in front of him; Starting to use 2-syllable babble (we looked up his favorite babble word 'daden' in a language translator and it means 'actions' in Dutch); Will go up to other kids and 'talk' to them.

Energy level: Both Aidan and I are in training this week and both of us have homework at night. We're both running on empty at the moment.

Exercise: Good dance class on Saturday but did not get to perform on Monday since I was at the doctor's office with Liam.

Thoughts and Feelings? I hate it when Liam is sick. i now know what it feels like to be helpless to make him better. You just have to comfort him through it. Liam's pink eye because of a simple cold, aggravated by an ear infection and him rubbing his eyes. Amazingly, even though you can see that his ears are bothering him (and his eyes look awful), he is still in good spirits. I am also so very grateful to our parents who have each taken him during the full day since we're stuck in training. I do not know how we would survive without them at the moment.

On another note, I have to submit my dissertation proposal by December 19th! Looks like I should be able to start data collection in January. This is so exciting!

What I am looking forward to: Christmas music and decorating!